After several months in which the relationship with my son deteriorated and his animosity towards me grew by the day, I had a 40-minute talk with the (clinical) social worker heading our local mental-health family support center. She is great; has so much experience.
She explained to me how my son must be feeling, at the age of 26, after two psychiatric hospitalizations, now living in supervised housing where he feels okay but of which he says that it doesn’t feel like “home”, and having to cope with this damn, debilitating illness day-in and day-out, while others his age have already completed their studies, have a job, are getting married and are having children. She gave me valuable advice as to how to speak to him and what NOT to say to him. And wow, it works! He is talking to me again. And he even told me he loves me.
Whenever I found myself in need of psychological support it was social workers who saved my soul. If I would start again from scratch and had to choose a profession – social work would be it!
Heila 
I really enjoyed your post. Thank you so much for sharing. It is a hard job and one that is done out of love more than anything. I recently started my own blog and hope u will find it helpful as well. There truly needs to be more encouragement in the world.
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Hi, thanks for your nice comment. I checked out your blog, liked what I read, and started following.
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In my experience they’re a mixed bunch. But then aren’t we all?
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My daughter and I are both clinical social workers and we both thank you sincerely!
Social workers tend to care which is why they went into the field. Only the best for you and your son!
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Thank you for your kind words, dear Cindy. Yes, social workers care and combined with their profound knowledge of the human nature and needs, they do wonderful work.
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Wonderful story dear Heila. I am so, so pleased that things are working out between you two because of the help you received. I am so happy for both of you 😀 ❤
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Thanks dear Ralph. ♥♥♥
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Social workers can be a nice link to the heart.
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Yesssss.
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Thank you, Heila! ❤
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❤, dear Ann.
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